Today I want to bring you my guide to a Sonoma winery wedding. Wine country weddings in California are great fun, and there’s lots to do in the area before and after the nuptials.
Sonoma Winery Wedding
The Sonoma winery wedding I went to was that of a good friend from childhood. I flew out to San Francisco to attend the ceremony, and I couldn’t wait to see her and celebrate her big day.
The fact that my friend had impeccable taste in both venue and style made it even more exciting to share in the festivities.
In classic California fashion, hers was a Sonoma winery wedding complete with a stunning backdrop of verdant vineyards and high, dry hills.
Pre-Wedding Wine Tasting in Sonoma
I arrived in Sonoma with my mother a bit early to do some wine tasting before the wedding.
We stopped at nearby winery called B.R. Cohn to sample their selection (incidentally, I later found out another friend had a Sonoma winery wedding of her own there a couple years ago).
The 2009 Russian River Valley Pinot Noir was a winner, and we bought a bottle before driving down the road to the wedding at the St Francis Winery in Sonoma.
Sonoma Winery Wedding Venue
Anyone who’s been to a summer wine country wedding in California knows the weather can be hot. Sweltering, in fact. Which is why my friend was smart to start her ceremony at 6pm.
The weather was perfectly pleasant by that hour, and as she walked down the aisle with the vines in the background, I couldn’t help but think she’d planned the perfect Sonoma winery wedding.
After the ceremony we all sat down to dinner at tables on the grass outside the Mission-style tasting room. It was a great way to celebrate the newlyweds.
After dinner, I caught up with old friends, danced, and marveled at how beautiful a bride my friend was.
When the Sonoma winery wedding came to an end, I succumbed to jet lag as my mother drove us back to where we were staying in San Francisco.
San Francisco
Speaking of which, despite my short time in California, I managed to see a bit of the city while I was home. Jet lag didn’t just make me sleep at odd hours; it also made me wake up at 4am every day.
Rather than see that as a bad thing, I took advantage of my early rising and spent my mornings watching the Golden Gate Bridge and the Palace of Fine Arts in the first light of dawn.
When the rest of the world woke up, I walked along the beach at Crissy Field and went shopping in the Marina and Cow Hollow.
The fact that the weather was ridiculously warm didn’t hurt, either. For those who’ve never been to San Francisco in the summer, believe me when I say the climate can be more dismal than it is in the UK.
Seriously. There’s a reason someone once said the coldest winter they ever spent was a summer in San Francisco.
When I wasn’t running around basking in the rare summer sun, I was partaking in my favorite pastime: eating the best food in San Francisco.
I had my wasabi bowl from Pacific Catch on Chestnut Street and my Blue Bottle Coffee latte from Blue Fog Market on Green Street.
I enjoyed my huevos rancheros from Balboa Cafe on Fillmore Street and I indulged in a dark chocolate treat from Kara’s Cupcakes on Scott Street.
Sonoma Winery Wedding
When my weekend in California was over, my mother drove me to the airport and I waved good-bye to both her and the city.
It was tough to leave my home state after such a great time at my friend’s Sonoma winery wedding, but jet lag is worth it for friends, family, and—I’m not afraid to say it—saturated fat and good tannins.
It has to be. I’m doing it again next month for a Del Mar wedding in Southern California.
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So many of the same haunts that I usually hit up when I’m home in SF! I’ll be heading back there twice this summer too, for two separate weddings. It’s a bummer to have to make such quick trips, but such a treat at the same time!
That’s great that you know a lot of the places I mentioned in SF, Erin! I agree that going back for weekends is worth it!
Blue Bottle Coffee alone would be worth the trip! I totally understand crazy travel to see friends, although I don’t envy you two long trips back-to-back. Enjoy the next wedding!
Thanks Emily! Glad you like Blue Bottle Coffee as much as I do!
Julie- you helped Joel and I plan a trip a couple years back and we had a great time! We are actually moving to Paris for a year beginning in July. I read your post today and wanted to comment that we often say that quote about winter/summer/SF. We believe it was Mark Twain.
All my best,
Jessica
Hi Jessica! That’s great that you’re moving to Paris! I’m jealous!
I love the quote about summer in SF, too. I always thought it was Mark Twain (and it’s always attributed to him), but I did some research once and found that the origin is up for debate. I still like to think it was Twain, though!
WOW now that is a sign of a good friend!!!!! Gorgeous pictures as always dear.
Thanks Andi!
Sigh! I miss San Francisco! And yes, it looked like a really pretty wedding.
Thanks agraciouslife!
We just read this wonderful blog and I completely teared up! I’m so glad you came and that you enjoyed it even though it was so short a visit. It means so much to me that you were there. Truly. And I’m extremely jealous of your Pacific Catch ahi poke bowl…I love that stuff! You’re the best friend a gal could ever hope for, and one of the very oldest!!
Thanks Pam! I’m so glad I was able to go to your wedding and share the big day with you!